tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4877563360885660011.post1478309165448337178..comments2023-08-04T08:25:03.999+02:00Comments on Everyone else but me: FET dayFranhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02956907374270680012noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4877563360885660011.post-58472041958148010352012-08-11T22:50:31.914+02:002012-08-11T22:50:31.914+02:00Oh, I'm sorry you had just a bad experience on...Oh, I'm sorry you had just a bad experience on transfer day, but I hope it won't keep the little embie from finding a nice spot to nestle and grow, You're PUPO! Keeping my fingers crossed for you.lostintranslationhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16386532187385381844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4877563360885660011.post-86468799469166573692012-08-11T19:44:06.406+02:002012-08-11T19:44:06.406+02:00Did my comment not post? iPhone kills me . I had s...Did my comment not post? iPhone kills me . I had something witty to say about even if you don't feel this was auspicious that I would celebrate for you. Whee!Mrs. Misfitshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12245258330689439524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4877563360885660011.post-55398922130658315952012-08-11T06:04:26.483+02:002012-08-11T06:04:26.483+02:00I'm so sorry, hon. All of this is hard enough ...I'm so sorry, hon. All of this is hard enough with support and proper care, but the days when people - medical, husbands, whoever - don't/can't/won't give it to us just add insult to injury. I hope Penguin #2 is snuggling in nicely and that both the clinic and Mike so something to make up for what was lacking today. Sending love from afar.<br />Love,<br />MaddyMad Hatterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08262994711680542891noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4877563360885660011.post-28458304761588214872012-08-10T22:55:00.823+02:002012-08-10T22:55:00.823+02:00Ugggh((( it sounds like a rough day. I am so sorry...Ugggh((( it sounds like a rough day. I am so sorry about the not-so-good experience and that you didn't get quite the right support. I will be staying positive for you and be thinking about that little expanding Embaby (do we have any nickname, yet?). Great thawing result! I am glad to hear they only had to take one out. Congrats on being PUPO! that is soo exciting!!!erikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07652721342410868916noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4877563360885660011.post-64931841572533485132012-08-10T17:42:36.413+02:002012-08-10T17:42:36.413+02:00I was thinking about emailing the clinic about the...I was thinking about emailing the clinic about the experience. It just felt very unprofessional. So I did after reading your comment! I wrote a very simple, matter of fact email, I really like the clinic and I wouldn't change it, but still! I'll let you know if I get a reply, I know the main doc is on holidays till the end of August and as I used his address I may not hear for a while.Franhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05717020378275616297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4877563360885660011.post-78508111884845989882012-08-10T14:44:52.770+02:002012-08-10T14:44:52.770+02:00Yuck, sounds like it was a perfectly awful day and...Yuck, sounds like it was a perfectly awful day and it just kept piling on. I hope things are better today and that you're enjoying a bit of rest (even though we all know the bedrest after transfer is a bunch of hooey, but it enjoy it nevertheless!) <br /><br />I don't know. I think I might write a letter to the clinic and point out that their single-minded attention on the olympic match was pretty unprofessional. I'm thinking there someone ought to get that feedback. And it might make you feel better?<br /><br />About the husband, well, I think I might take the opportunity to give him a little feedback too. If you didn't already ;-)<br /><br />Take care and hang in there!HopeBPatienthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05594281959818334437noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4877563360885660011.post-49565063832808940552012-08-10T14:09:26.090+02:002012-08-10T14:09:26.090+02:00I think what would have hurt me most was Mike'...I think what would have hurt me most was Mike's reaction to the whole thing. I'm sorry that he was not "present" and "with you" before, during and after the FET. Sometimes our men just don't get it.<br /><br />As for the FET itself, I'll be hoping and praying that that little embie is snuggling in for the long haul.<br /><br />Much love<br />xxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4877563360885660011.post-21117046914904898562012-08-10T11:54:00.842+02:002012-08-10T11:54:00.842+02:00You are right Mina, he has never been that differe...You are right Mina, he has never been that different, but he never left me minutes after a procedure to watch a match! He is definitely not an emotional or particularly romantic guy (which is absolutely fine by me) but I really thought this time he had crossed the line. I had a post at some point in the past which was titled "Here I go again on my own" to describe the beginning of yet another FET. I realise the novelty wears out probably after the first time, still if we want to add to the family, for me it means several weeks of injections, pills and scans etc. Repeatedly. So when he asks me if after the transfer I'd be feeling ill (getting confused with retrieval) when we have done 6 transfers already, you can imagine that my blood starts to boil!Franhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05717020378275616297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4877563360885660011.post-49131741213058530892012-08-10T09:05:19.395+02:002012-08-10T09:05:19.395+02:00I am so sorry things were not as you might have ex...I am so sorry things were not as you might have expected. But the fact is, now you are PUPO and need to take care of yourself.<br />Mike - well, was he any different before? I mean, he may just be different from you in that respect and expecting him to change and be like you is not realistic. People don't change. And it is good to be different, it makes for active interaction and strive for progress. <br />Sure, a bit more attention to your stressed out wife during a FET would have been welcome, but sometimes men just don't see why we women worry so much (I say it is to compensate their lack of worries...). <br />Take care, sweety, and praying for good news soon!Minahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13148000699685037451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4877563360885660011.post-17691802415967880732012-08-10T05:13:16.851+02:002012-08-10T05:13:16.851+02:00While the experience wasn't pleasant, I pray t...While the experience wasn't pleasant, I pray that the outcome will be an amazing blessing! I hope you can get some rest tomorrow and hopefully Mike will wise up and show you some TLC. :)Life Happenshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02302134343874268994noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4877563360885660011.post-7965402567179671002012-08-09T23:55:48.400+02:002012-08-09T23:55:48.400+02:00Ugh sorry it was such a crappy experience but it&#...Ugh sorry it was such a crappy experience but it's over and I'm hoping that little embryo is settling in for the next 9 months.nurslouisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15749921400852799303noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4877563360885660011.post-3049656478473484992012-08-09T22:22:50.366+02:002012-08-09T22:22:50.366+02:00Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry that your FET day did...Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry that your FET day did not go as planned. Seriously, the staff should definitely have been more sensitive!<br /><br />And Mike... Oh Mike... Why are guys like this? They don't understand - at all - how important it is to act like they give a sh!t about you, or about the process, or just be a tiny bit sensitive! I'm so sorry that he sucked so much during this process. That is really the hardest part of it all.<br /><br />I agree with you - I don't think bedrest or thinking positively, or any of that crap, really have anything to do with the end result. But enjoy this calm time. You deserve a nice quiet day of peace. Thinking of you!!!<br /><br />And sending you, Oliver, and your newest little embryo lots of love! (Not Mike - I hope that's ok... :)Alexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07524692943966582775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4877563360885660011.post-65112719651315066752012-08-09T21:14:29.713+02:002012-08-09T21:14:29.713+02:00I'm so sorry that Mike let you down. It's ...I'm so sorry that Mike let you down. It's hard not to have that support. I don't think you're expecting too much, but I do hope you talk with him. <br /><br />Congrats on getting the FET over with...I'll think positive thoughts for you. And, since Cadet is giggling at me as I am typing this, I'll assume that he's thinking good thoughts for you too!!!<br /><br />Big hugs, my friend!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com