Saturday, February 12, 2011

6 weeks check ups!

Little Oliver is 6 weeks today and doing great!
We both went for our check up on thursday. Dr. L was very happy to see me and said my scar has healed perfectly. He didn't have the histology report on my placenta which may have been sent to Dr. Wonderful so he'll trace it back and call me next week. We chatted a bit about why the placenta may have stopped working, but till we can see the lab results it's just a guessing work. So we'll wait. He said that if there were some clots formed we may considerer taking aspirin all the way through the next pregnancy and have closer monitoring (which is just music to my ears...I'm addicted to hospitals and doctors I discovered!) with doppler scan done routinely (although I am quite sure the blood flow in the umbilical artery was ok till the very end...but maybe not the flow from me to the placenta, I don't know). Anyway....did you see me talking already bout the next pregnancy??
Sooooo it was in fact Dr. L who brought this up asking if we were thinking of doing IVF again to give Oliver a little sibling. I said we were but we didn't know time-wise if there were restrictions due to the c-section. You read loads of different opinions, some say you have to wait a year before conceiving again, other 18 as I'm not getting any younger and we don't have any frozen embryos left I was a bit concerned I'd simply sun out of time.
Amazingly he said that in fact you read all of the above, but that the scar in the uterus doesn't change any more after 3 months from the surgery and that at that point it is as good as it's ever going to be. So the recommended amount of time between two pregnancies is not related at all to the type of delivery, just mostly to when someone is ready to go again. This was absolutely fantastic to hear. I think I realised that I would like to have another baby, to enjoy the pregnancy this time but I also want to give Oliver all the attention he deserves. As we will never have an accidental pregnancy I wonder if we could go for a cycle this summer and just freeze the embryos for the future. I know it's a gamble and I'll probably be worried about the fact that when we do the transfer, say in a year to 18 months from now they either don't survive or it's a BFN I'll be even older for more treatments then...Anyway, we'll think about it and it's nice to know that the guidelines here are suiting me just better!

Next Oliver went for his check up and passed with flying colours. His muscular tone is right on track and so is his weight and head control. I asked about the dirty nappies (I thought they were improving but not really) and the doctor thinks that as he never had any temperature or any other kind of discomfort it's probably not a virus at all at this point but just his body struggling a bit to process all the lactose he's taking in. He had a point when he said we'd be having diarrhoea too if we were drinking 9-10 litres of milk a day in proportion to our body weight! So we'll try a different formula with lower lactose content and see how it goes.

I had forgot to mention in my last post that I went to the clinic with Oliver last tuesday! Of course I called ahead to see when was the best time to drop by when no patients would have been around. I'd been there to long not to know how painful it is to see other people's babies even if they have gone through IF. You can hear the evil voice in your head saying you may just fall at the other side of the statistics...
It was so emotional being there again, but in a good way. Everyone wanted to hold Oliver and I took a pic of the Favourite Doctor with him!

Again, I felt the comfort of being there, the familiarity of the place and the people that made our miracle a reality for us and never gave up on hope. It's as if I miss it all. Of course they all look forward to seeing me soon again! They also told me that they are moving location in the next two months as they have outgrown the facilities there. Shock! I won't be going back to the same place which was so so convenient as it was just on the way to it was great to hear the new building is even more conveniently located for us, maybe it's a sign we won't have so much heartbreak the next time!

Finally yesterday I brought Oliver into work and had great (social) time with colleagues at lunch and coffee (ah!! the coffee!! It was ages I din't have a *bucks Caramel Macchiato!). I really do miss adult interaction...


  1. Glad everything is going so well:) Very interesting about your placenta cant wait to see what they say...Take care Momma!

  2. You sound so good! It's exciting and scary thinking about siblings, isn't it? I can't imagine it happening here any time soon and I'll be really really old then. While Oliver is small and portable you can go out and meet friends for coffee - take advantage of it - I would! It's great for your spirits and nice to chat! Xoxo

  3. So wonderful little Oliver is doing so well, and you have been getting out and about!

    Wow, already looking at next IVF! Check you out!!!!

    I love hearing you guys are doing well :)

  4. I have sort of fallen off the face of the planet lately, but want you to know I think of you often. So overjoyed that we are both blesses to be mamas!

  5. Hi
    Have been reading your post since before I got pregnant. I am now 28 weeks .
    Just realised we went to the same clinic esp when i seen the photo of your fav doctor I think she s fab to .
    Where are they moving to ????
    Hope not to far away from present location as it was very handy for us. As were from outside Dublin
    Anyway congratus on your goergous new baby Oliver

  6. Fran, I'm so glad that you and Oliver are doing well. And I think your idea to do a summer cycle, and freeze the embryos is a really excellent one. It's the best of both worlds: you do the cycle with "younger" eggs AND you can give Oliver one-on-one time. I think it's very smart.

  7. So glad to hear you both are doing so well!

  8. I am seriously happy to read that you want to have another go at another baby. I say go for it!

    Glad everything is going well with you and Oliver too. I healed pretty quickly from mine as well.

    Give your little man a kiss from me. XO

  9. I am so glad to read your update and to hear that everything is healing well. I hear hou on thinking about having another baby and the feeling of ru ning out of time. I guess you just have to donwhat feels right for you.


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